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Monday, May 21, 2007

Dad and I have joined the peertrain.com website so we can help motivate each other in loosing weight. I invited Alyssa and Toni also but unfortunately the site only allows 4 people per group. I hope that this will keep me on track as I really need the accountibility of other people. We are also following the same weightloss guidelines from the fat smash diet. Look it up. But I was thinking that if anyone else wanted to join that website and add me to their group then we could still help keep each other accountable. or just post comments on the blog. Whatever. Brandon has been sleeping for a while and we need to get to the store.

Friday, May 18, 2007

What is happening to my body? Being pregnant was interesting. Not being pregnant and still looking pregnant is getting on my nerves. I have the body odor of a 12 year old who doesn't realize that they stink, (remember that?) deodorant doesn't seem to work as well as it did before. Apparently it's those dang hormones again! I have a bladder infection and I have started my period. I didn't think I could THIS early if I was still breastfeeding. I knew I would most likely get it while I was, I just didn't think it would be so soon. NO BUENO! So it's been interesting the couple of times that I was nursing and had the sudden urge to pee. Sometimes I can hold it and most times I just barely make it. And only having to go acouple tablespoons at a time is driving me nuts!
Brandon has been doing a good job of tricking us into thinking that he sleeps through the night. He seems to have a pattern he follows. One night he'll sleep about 8 hours straight, maybe I'll have to put his Binky back in his mouth but no nursing. The next two nights he wakes up starving around 3:30am to about 4:00, sometimes I fall asleep in the recliner and make it back to bed around 5:00. Then he's up around 7:30am and eats again, gets his diaper changed and back to bed. This time not as sleepy as mommy or daddy he makes happy noises for a while but then realizes something is missing and wants his Binky, but he just hasn't learned the trick of how to keep it in his mouth or how to put it back in once it's out! I can't wait for that day!!!He slept for most of the day yesterday and I know that's why he was so fussy last night.
But I did get a lot of cleaning done. I realized yesterday while I was talking to Toni that I have been using the pregnancy and new mother excuses too much. When I was pregnant I thought to myself, "This is the only time in my life when I can eat what I want! So I'm going to." In the end I had a huge baby, gained crazy weight and had high blood pressure too!
Lesson #1 learned. Take care of yourself when pregnant or you will look pregnant for months after, you put you and the baby's health at risk.
New mother excuse: "No one will expect your house to be clean." Not that I never do the dishes or laundry, I did let them pile up so it takes hours instead of minutes to take care of them. And I'm not usually overly tired, I just use my down time while he's napping or content to watch TV. If anything I should be napping too. So yesterday I cleaned the kitchen, put out the trash... all the way to the compacter, I made three trips. Vacuumed the entire apartment, swept the floor, cleaned off the kitchen table and finally shredded all the papers, recycled about 10-15 pounds of paper, cleaned off the side table and coffee table, did three loads of laundry and two loads of dishes, washed all the pots and pans. I did manage to get a couple egg salad sandwiches in me too. I made a nice Asian style dinner with yakasoba noodle stir fry with chicken and some pot stickers. I started to make some fresh rolls too but we didn't need any more to our meal we had plenty.
Lesson #2 learned, do chores everyday when they are small and they won't pile up and take all day long like you think they will now. Seriously, how long does it take to empty the dishwasher? 5 minutes? Just think of how fortunate we are that we have all the modern conveniences, 50 years ago they weren't as lucky. Not that they were slapping their clothes on rocks in the river (or maybe they were!) but things have improved tremendously.
Dinner was the most challenging. Normally I set Brandon in his car seat on a chair in the "dinning room" and he watches me cook or whatever and I can keep an eye on him and replace his Binky when it falls out. He was not having that. Touching raw chicken and sausage and having a crying baby is not fun. Someone might try to convince you that it is but they're lying! So I had to turn off the stove and pause dinner for about 20 minutes. John walks though the door and I tell him diner is on hold till he's finished eating. John takes a shower and I finish feeding Brandon. Burp him and right back to the car seat... Cranky baby! John gets out of the shower and comes help comfort Peanut so I can finish cooking. John and I haven't been able to eat dinner together at the same time for weeks. One of us is soothing him and the other eats. He does really well when we go out to eat because he usually falls asleep in the car on the way to the restaurant! So after dinner John crashes on the couch and I feed the baby again... I guess he didn't get all he could eat, after all I am a 24 hours a day all you can eat buffet with only one thing on the menu. Which seems to be okay by him.

Wednesday, May 16, 2007

Today Brandon had his 2 month check up and Dr. Davis says he looks great! He is in the 95 percentile for his weight 85th for his height and 75th - 80th for his head size... He is one big boy, Doc says he must love to eat! And boy does he. He is on somewhat of a schedule. Asleep by 11pm most nights and up around 7:30am to eat, and if I'm lucky I get a quick nap after that. He usually naps around 1 for a couple hours and then again around 7 or 8. And if he goes anywhere with me he usually falls asleep in his car seat. He had to get 4 shots today and his pku tested. Poor guy. By the time I got him calmed down from all the shots he had to get his heel pricked again and he was not a happy camper. He didn't stop crying until I was carrying him out to the car where I think exhaustion took over and he conked out till I made it home a bit later. Then he woke up in pain and hunger so I fed him and he fell asleep again. I tried to clip his fingernails because every time I nursed him he tried to grab me and scratches the heck out of my chest and arms. So then he woke up again. I wrapped him up in a blanket and let him fall asleep for longer and was finally able to get them trimmed. Then off to bed where he slept for about 2 hours straight. I am supposed to monitor his temperature and make sure that his legs don't turn red. Let's hope not.
We got a bill in the mail for his hospital stay for over $12,000. I called the insurance co and the hospital and the Dr.s office as there was also a problem with the Dr visits... Long story short, even thought he napped for 2 hours, I was on hold or calling someone for almost the whole time. So all I got done was putting the dirty dishes in the washer. I did get a chance to eat lunch though. Normally he wakes up or gets cranky so I have to hold him. Hmmm what a day. I may need to take a nap. For some reason I just haven't felt like I have rested enough lately. Maybe the lack of sleep is catching up to me.
John's dad's sister died on Monday from complications of rheumatoid arthritis she has had for many years. I'm sad that Brandon will never get to meet her but she was in so much pain she is in a better place now. And for that I am happy. This is the second family member of John's to pass since we have been together. His grandpa died the end of January the first year we dated. He was 92 I believe and had advanced Parkinson's disease. But John's aunt wasn't even 60 yet. It's strange to hear of mom and dad's friends their age who have had illnesses and have passed away. Scary to hear your dad has cancer. Seeing John's dad start to struggle with the affects of Parkinson's gives me a glimpse into what I may be helping John cope with years down the road.

Saturday, May 05, 2007


My son is addicted to Mylicon.... I think I have it figured out. Last night he slept from about 11:30pm to 7:15 this morning... Thank the Lord!!! Although it was a much quieter sleep last night I was of course still parinoid that he wasn't breathing so I would wake up just to be sure... and to go to the bathroom. He has a hard time settling down at night, around 9:30, about an hour before I start getting him ready for bed he gets so fussy and I can't figure out what is wrong. It took an hour of rocking, shhhing, feeding and holding to get him to fall asleep. So I give him some Mylicon and he likes that a lot, I put a drop or two on a pacifier and stick that in his mouth and that usually keeps him content for a while. So for the past couple of days I have been giving him, after each feeding while I change his diaper, a couple drops of it and he is happy as a clam. In fact, he is on the couch taking a good Saturday nap with daddy. He has been smiling much more and I even got him to laugh when I tickled him, which unto this point didn't know how to respond. He looked more confused than anything. He loves the Baby Einstein play mat that was given to him at the shower on Thursday. And the blanket that Toni crocheted for him is one of his new favorites too. We now have enough clothes for him to wear something different everyday for the whole 3-6 month period! All of the gifts were so great! And now to find the thank you cards I bought...
Tonight we are going to a friends fundraiser. She and her dad are going to Italy on a mission trip; this summer I think. Sounds tough huh? I would love to go to Italy, but I don't know, if I had to go for a mission I might be too distracted by everything that I want to see. I have wanted to go to Italy for years, or just Euope in general. I have never been. Maybe when the kids that I have yet to have are old enough we can all go as a big happy family.

Tuesday, May 01, 2007

Celebrity Fit Club

I know most of you don't watch VH1 but there is a show on there late Sunday that I have been watching called Celebrity Fit Club. The contestants are celebrities that aren't in the lime light that much anymore and are there trying to loose weight... I hope that explains a lot. Well the majority of the people on there are fun to watch and get inspired by but one of them. I know most of you remember Screetch from Saved by the Bell. Well he is on there and is a jerk. I want to throw things at the t.v. when ever he is on and saying nasty things about everyone else. And he is very hypocrittical.... But luckily he decides to leave the show next week and I won't have to listed to him be nasty and negative. The diet coach on there has written a book and I am thinking about picking a copy up for me to read. I know I'm not supposed to diet while nursing Brandon but changing the way I eat is definately okay. Here are some great tips (100)from a book the show's nutritionist wrote:


1. Add just one fruit or veggie serving daily. Get comfortable with that, then add an extra serving until you reach 8 to 10 a day.

2. Eat at least two servings of a fruit or veggie at every meal.

3. Resolve never to supersize your food portions--unless you want to supersize your clothes.

4. Make eating purposeful, not mindless. Whenever you put food in your mouth, peel it, unwrap it, plate it, and sit. Engage all of the senses in the pleasure of nourishing your body.

5. Start eating a big breakfast. It helps you eat fewer total calories throughout the day.

6. Make sure your plate is half veggies and/or fruit at both lunch and dinner.


7. Eating out? Halve it, and bag the rest. A typical restaurant entree has 1,000 to 2,000 calories, not even counting the bread, appetizer, beverage, and dessert.

8. When dining out, make it automatic: Order one dessert to share.

9. Use a salad plate instead of a dinner plate.

10. See what you eat. Plate your food instead of eating out of the jar or bag.

11. Eat the low-cal items on your plate first, then graduate. Start with salads, veggies, and broth soups, and eat meats and starches last. By the time you get to them, you'll be full enough to be content with smaller portions of the high-calorie choices.

12. Instead of whole milk, switch to 1 percent. If you drink one 8-oz glass a day, you'll lose 5 lb in a year.

13. Juice has as many calories, ounce for ounce, as soda. Set a limit of one 8-oz glass of fruit juice a day.

14. Get calories from foods you chew, not beverages. Have fresh fruit instead of fruit juice.

15. Keep a food journal. It really works wonders.

16. Follow the Chinese saying: "Eat until you are eight-tenths full."

17. Use mustard instead of mayo.

18. Eat more soup. The noncreamy ones are filling but low-cal.

19. Cut back on or cut out caloric drinks such as soda, sweet tea, lemonade, etc. People have lost weight by making just this one change. If you have a 20-oz bottle of Coca-Cola every day, switch to Diet Coke. You should lose 25 lb in a year.

20. Take your lunch to work.

21. Sit when you eat.

22. Dilute juice with water.

23. Have mostly veggies for lunch.

24. Eat at home.

25. Limit alcohol to weekends.


26. Have a V8 or tomato juice instead of a Diet Coke at 3 pm.

27. Doctor your veggies to make them delicious: Dribble maple syrup over carrots, and sprinkle chopped nuts on green beans.

28. Mix three different cans of beans and some diet Italian dressing. Eat this three-bean salad all week.

29. Don't forget that vegetable soup counts as a vegetable.

30. Rediscover the sweet potato.

31. Use prebagged baby spinach everywhere: as "lettuce" in sandwiches, heated in soups, wilted in hot pasta, and added to salads.

32. Spend the extra few dollars to buy vegetables that are already washed and cut up.

33. Really hate veggies? Relax. If you love fruits, eat plenty of them; they are just as healthy (especially colorful ones such as oranges, mangoes, and melons).

34. Keep seven bags of your favorite frozen vegetables on hand. Mix any combination, microwave, and top with your favorite low-fat dressing. Enjoy 3 to 4 cups a day. Makes a great quick dinner.

35. "The best portion of high-calorie foods is the smallest one. The best portion of vegetables is the largest one. Period."

36. "I'll ride the wave. My cravings will disappear after 10 minutes if I turn my attention elsewhere."

37. "I want to be around to see my grandchildren, so I can forgo a cookie now."

38. "I am a work in progress."

39. "It's more stressful to continue being fat than to stop overeating."

40. Skipping meals. Many healthy eaters "diet by day and binge by night."

41. Don't "graze" yourself fat. You can easily munch 600 calories of pretzels or cereal without realizing it.

42. Eating pasta like crazy. A serving of pasta is 1 cup, but some people routinely eat 4 cups.

43. Eating supersize bagels of 400 to 500 calories for snacks.

44. Ignoring "Serving Size" on the Nutrition Facts panel.

45. Snacking on bowls of nuts. Nuts are healthy but dense with calories. Put those bowls away, and use nuts as a garnish instead of a snack.

46. Thinking all energy bars and fruit smoothies are low-cal.

47. A smoothie made with fat-free milk, frozen fruit, and wheat germ.

48. The smallest fast-food burger (with mustard and ketchup, not mayo) and a no-cal beverage. Then at home, have an apple or baby carrots.

49. A peanut butter sandwich on whole wheat bread with a glass of 1 percent milk and an apple.

50. Precooked chicken strips and microwaved frozen broccoli topped with Parmesan cheese.

51. A healthy frozen entree with a salad and a glass of 1 percent milk.

52. Scramble eggs in a nonstick skillet. Pop some asparagus in the microwave, and add whole wheat toast. If your cholesterol levels are normal, you can have seven eggs a week!

53. A bag of frozen vegetables heated in the microwave, topped with 2 tablespoons of Parmesan cheese and 2 tablespoons of chopped nuts.

54. Prebagged salad topped with canned tuna, grape tomatoes, shredded reduced-fat cheese, and low-cal Italian dressing.

55. Keep lean sandwich fixings on hand: whole wheat bread, sliced turkey, reduced-fat cheese, tomatoes, mustard with horseradish.

56. Heat up a can of good soup.

57. Cereal, fruit, and fat-free milk makes a good meal anytime.

58. Try a veggie sandwich from Subway.

59. Precut fruit for a salad and add yogurt.

60. Don't tell yourself, "It's okay, it's the holidays." That opens the door to 6 weeks of splurging.

61. Remember, EAT before you meet. Have this small meal before you go to any parties: a hardboiled Egg, Apple, and a Thirst quencher (water, seltzer, diet soda, tea).

62. As obvious as it sounds, don't stand near the food at parties. Make the effort, and you'll find you eat less.

63. At a buffet? Eating a little of everything guarantees high calories. Decide on three or four things, only one of which is high in calories. Save that for last so there's less chance of overeating.

64. For the duration of the holidays, wear your snuggest clothes that don't allow much room for expansion. Wearing sweats is out until January.

65. Give it away! After company leaves, give away leftover food to neighbors, doormen, or delivery people, or take it to work the next day.

66. Walk around the mall three times before you start shopping.

67. Make exercise a nonnegotiable priority.

68. Dance to music with your family in your home. One dietitian reported that when she asks her patients to do this, initially they just smile, but once they've done it, they say it is one of the easiest ways to involve the whole family in exercise.

69. Once in a while, have a lean, mean salad for lunch or dinner, and save the meal's calories for a full dessert.

70. Are you the kind of person who does better if you make up your mind to do without sweets and just not have them around? Or are you going to do better if you have a limited amount of sweets every day? One RD reported that most of her clients pick the latter and find they can avoid bingeing after a few days.

71. If your family thinks they need a very sweet treat every night, try to strike a balance between offering healthy choices but allowing them some "free will." Compromise with low-fat ice cream and fruit, or sometimes just fruit with a dollop of whipped cream.

72. Try 2 weeks without sweets. It's amazing how your cravings vanish.

73. Eat more fruit. A person who gets enough fruit in his diet doesn't have a raging sweet tooth.

74. Eat your sweets, just eat them smart! Carve out about 150 calories per day for your favorite sweet. That amounts to about an ounce of chocolate, half a modest slice of cake, or 1/2 cup of regular ice cream.

75. Try these smart little sweets: sugar-free hot cocoa, frozen red grapes, fudgsicles, sugar-free gum, Nutri-Grain chocolate fudge twists, Tootsie Rolls, and hard candy.

76. Eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner. The large majority of people who struggle with night eating are those who skip meals or don't eat balanced meals during the day. This is a major setup for overeating at night.

77. Eat your evening meal in the kitchen or dining room, sitting down at the table.

78. Drink cold unsweetened raspberry tea. It tastes great and keeps your mouth busy.

79. Change your nighttime schedule. It will take effort, but it will pay off. You need something that will occupy your mind and hands.

80. If you're eating at night due to emotions, you need to focus on getting in touch with what's going on and taking care of yourself in a way that really works. Find a nonfood method of coping with your stress.

81. Put a sign on the kitchen and refrigerator doors: "Closed after Dinner."

82. Brush your teeth right after dinner to remind you: No more food.

83. Eat without engaging in any other simultaneous activity. No reading, watching TV, or sitting at the computer.

84. Eating late at night won't itself cause weight gain. It's how many calories--not when you eat them--that counts.

85. Fat-free isn't always your best bet. Research has found that none of the lycopene or alpha- or beta-carotene that fight cancer and heart disease is absorbed from salads with fat-free dressing. Only slightly more is absorbed with reduced-fat dressing; the most is absorbed with full-fat dressing. But remember, use your dressing in moderate amounts.

86. Skipping breakfast will leave you tired and craving naughty foods by midmorning. To fill up healthfully and tastefully, try this sweet, fruity breakfast full of antioxidants. In a blender, process 1 c nonfat plain or vanilla yogurt, 1 1/3 c frozen strawberries (no added sugar), 1 peeled kiwi, and 1 peeled banana. Pulse until mixture is milkshake consistency. Makes one 2-cup serving; 348 calories and 1.5 fat grams.

87. If you're famished by 4 p.m. and have no alternative but an office vending machine, reach for the nuts--. The same goes if your only choices are what's available in the hotel minibar.

88. Next time you're feeling wiped out in late afternoon, forgo that cup of coffee and reach for a cup of yogurt instead. The combination of protein, carbohydrate, and fat in an 8-ounce serving of low-fat yogurt will give you a sense of fullness and well-being that coffee can't match, as well as some vital nutrients. If you haven't eaten in 3 to 4 hours, your blood glucose levels are probably dropping, so eating a small amount of nutrient-rich food will give your brain and your body a boost.

89. Making just a few changes to your pantry shelves can get you a lot closer to your weight loss goals. Here's what to do: If you use corn and peanut oil, replace it with olive oil. Same goes for breads--go for whole wheat. Trade in those fatty cold cuts like salami and bologna and replace them canned tuna, sliced turkey breast, and lean roast beef. Change from drinking whole milk to fat-free milk or low-fat soy milk. This is hard for a lot of people so try transitioning down to 2 percent and then 1 percent before you go fat-free.

90. Nothing's less appetizing than a crisper drawer full of mushy vegetables. Frozen vegetables store much better, plus they may have greater nutritional value than fresh. Food suppliers typically freeze veggies just a few hours after harvest, locking in the nutrients. Fresh veggies, on the other hand, often spend days in the back of a truck before they reach your supermarket.

91. Worried about the trans-fat content in your peanut butter? Good news: In a test done on Skippy, JIF, Peter Pan, and a supermarket brand, the levels of trans fats per 2-tablespoon serving were far lower than 0.5 gram--low enough that under proposed laws, the brands can legally claim zero trans fats on the label. They also contained only 1 gram more sugar than natural brands--not a significant difference.

92. Overeating is not the result of exercise. Vigorous exercise won't stimulate you to overeat. It's just the opposite. Exercise at any level helps curb your appetite immediately following the workout.

93. When you're exercising, you shouldn't wait for thirst to strike before you take a drink. By the time you feel thirsty, you're already dehydrated. Try this: Drink at least 16 ounces of water, sports drinks, or juices two hours before you exercise. Then drink 8 ounces an hour before and another 4 to 8 ounces every 15 to 20 minutes during your workout. Finish with at least 16 ounces after you're done exercising.

94. Tune in to an audio book while you walk. It'll keep you going longer and looking forward to the next walk--and the next chapter! Check your local library for a great selection. Look for a whodunit; you might walk so far you'll need to take a cab home!

95. Think yoga's too serene to burn calories? Think again. You can burn 250 to 350 calories during an hour-long class (that's as much as you'd burn from an hour of walking)! Plus, you'll improve muscle strength, flexibility, and endurance.

96. Drinking too few can hamper your weight loss efforts. That's because dehydration can slow your metabolism by 3 percent, or about 45 fewer calories burned a day, which in a year could mean weighing 5 pounds more. The key to water isn't how much you drink, it's how frequently you drink it. Small amounts sipped often work better than 8 ounces gulped down at once.

97. A registered dietitian (RD) can help you find healthy ways to manage your weight with food. To find one in your area who consults with private clients call (800) 366-1655.

98. The best place to drop pounds may be your own house of worship. Researchers set up healthy eating and exercise programs in 16 Baltimore churches. More than 500 women participated and after a year the most successful lost an average of 20 lb. Weight loss programs based on faith are so successful because there's a built-in community component that people can feel comfortable with.

99. Here's another reason to keep level-headed all the time: Pennsylvania State University research has found that women less able to cope with stress--shown by blood pressure and heart rate elevations--ate twice as many fatty snacks as stress-resistant women did, even after the stress stopped (in this case, 25 minutes of periodic jackhammer-level noise and an unsolvable maze).

100. Sitting at a computer may help you slim down. When researchers at Brown University School of Medicine put 92 people on online weight loss programs for a year, those who received weekly e-mail counseling shed 5 1/2 more pounds than those who got none. Counselors provided weekly feedback on diet and exercise logs, answered questions, and cheered them on. Most major online diet programs offer many of these features.

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